What we do differently

My hubby and I started talking today about the things that we are already and will do differently with and in raising our kids. I always feel like I am fighting tendencies to be like my mom, so I am constantly evaluating (I WILL stop Darin-I promise!). Anyway, I am compiling a list that hopefully I can continue to add to. Here it goes.

We play games with our children -- my parents NEVER played games with me-ever.

We always take our children into consideration when we watch TV -- my parents watched what they wanted regardless of the rating...and regardless of my age. Slasher movies at 6 aren't a good idea!

We talk WITH our children not TO them -- 'nuf said.

We are goofy and joke around a LOT -- I don't remember that EVER happening

We pay attention to our children's gifts and talents and help them to be all that God wants them to be -- Um--no spiritual discussions--talents--um, they were too busy with their own crap.

Bethany says, " You're sane!" -- funny

We create fun experiences and trips for our children -- um, I went to the psychiatrist with mom and dad.

We try our hardest to help them feel safe and secure -- slasher movies at 6.....um, not feeling real safe.

We respect our children as individuals -- my mom was completely annoyed that I was around.

When my children graduate from high school we WILL make a huge deal out of it -- my mom didn't attend my graduation, my dad stood in the stands and when it was over, yelled down, "We're leaving." Gee--thanks. My friends parents congratulated me.
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There are many more, I just can't think....but I needed to post this. It's a great reminder for me. Our kids are healthy, well adjusted, love the Lord, and love people. What more could I ask for?